There are some advantages to having a checkered past...sadly, neither money nor retirement security are among them!
I suppose you could say I try to keep "on-message," except I'm not sure what the message is. Back when I occasionally spoke to large journalism groups, I used to tell the little weasels that the very things that made me a successful journalist — a kind of quirky ADD that allowed me to focus in very quickly and very intensely (and for a distressingly short span of time) on a topic, an obsession with research, an unwillingness to ever take "NO!" for an answer, and the ability to just as abruptly walk away from the topic — also made me a lousy human being. They usually thought I was joking.
So thanks! I suspect I will continue to occasionally wander aimlessly...as the great J.R.R. Tolkien noted in LOTR, "Not all those who wander are lost..."
Michael B