Thanks to all for your replies. I found exactly what I wanted on another board. It seems that commonly available muriatic acid reacts vigorously with zinc, and not at all with lead.
After sorting through all the weights, I actually had very few zinc ones. There were quite a few of the ones marked "Fe" which are iron (steel). Most of the zinc ones are marked "Zn", but not all, so some testing was still required. A lot of the lead ones are marked "P", which makes it easy. Again, not all of them.
Also had several old battery terminals, most of which were lead, but there was a zinc one in there just to try and trip me up.
"Kids, don't try this at home!"
I still need to run to the pharmacy and get an eye dropper for the acid. Tried just pouring some in a small plastic dish, but it's not a good idea to just dunk the suspect weight. Not only does the acid sit there and SMOKE on a humid day, but the stink is a mixture of rotten eggs and Clorox bleach. You really want to use a minimum amount of the acid!
Thanks again! The Internet is a wonderful thing!
Grizzle Bear