Some days I wonder why the hell she said yes. It certainly wasn't for my looks, money or personality. I am ugly, was in the hole almost 1 mill when we met and I am a jerk.
Take my advice BTDT.
Do what ever it takes to make her happy .
And TELL her, apparently they like to hear it out loud.
From one jerk to another, that isn't what I did so it will probably work.

To paraphrase Tuco, "If you got a keeper, KEEP HER"

Had to add that.
